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How much does a child actually cost in Germany?

A family in Germany will spend …
Direct cost, birth to 18 · 1 child
173.376 €
About 803 €/month, every month, for eighteen years.
The shape of 18 years

A child is not one expense. It is a curve.

Monthly outflow per year of the child's age. Direct cash in cyan; childcare in violet, concentrated in the first years. The teen years rise quietly but never spike like the early ones.

01kBirthage 0Kindergartenage 4Teen yearsage 1218age 17786/mo
Direct cashSource: Destatis - Konsumausgaben von Familien für Kinder, EVS 2018 (Tab. 2.1 + 3.1)
What it could have been

The same money, invested instead.

If you set aside 803 €/month in a globally diversified portfolio at a 6% real return, after 18 years you would hold roughly:

310.915 €
At 6% real return · 173.376 € contributed, 137.539 € from compounding

About 1.8× the direct cost.

This is the opportunity cost in plain numbers. It is not an argument against children. It is the size of the choice you are making, so you can plan around it: a savings goal, an 18-year compounding account in the child's name, or simply a clearer head.

For scale

What else costs about 173.376 €?

  • A down payment on a home · 80.000 €2.2×
  • A luxury car · 95.000 €1.8×
  • Seed capital for a small business · 200.000 €0.9×
  • Ten years of rent in a major city · 200.000 €0.9×
  • A full K-12 private school education · 250.000 €0.7×
Where the monthly cost goes

One child, one school month, eight buckets.

Monthly direct cash for one child, broken down by the cost table. Housing share and food dominate; phone and internet round to zero because they are typically already on the household plan.

Food122 €
Clothing60 €
Housing share179 €
Household & home37 €
Health (out-of-pocket)49 €
Transport59 €
Phone & internet27 €
Leisure & culture127 €
Education & childcare25 €
Restaurants & accommodation55 €
Other goods & services45 €
See all scenarios at once
1 child
174.096 €
174.096 €
2 children
291.168 €
291.168 €
3 children
403.920 €
403.920 €
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Frequently Asked Questions

Average monthly consumption expenditure on a child (couple households) · Federal Statistical Office (Destatis) - Konsumausgaben von Familien für Kinder, EVS 2018 (published 2021). Includes food, clothing, housing share, household, health, transport, telecom, leisure, education (incl. average Kita fees), restaurants/accommodation and other services. Excludes the unpaid care work of parents. Note: per-cell figures by siblings × age are direct from Destatis only for 1-child couple households; 2- and 3-child × age cells are derived by scaling the verified 1-child age curve by the published per-child household averages (€638 for 2 kids, €590 for 3 kids vs €763 for 1 kid).

EVS 2018 figures cover all of Germany; the East/West gap (former federal states +35% vs new federal states) is documented in the source. Costs include average childcare (Kita) fees rather than excluding them - Germany's Kita is heavily means-tested and bundled into the household survey, so the headline number reflects what families actually spend on average childcare arrangements, not zero-Kita.

Source: Destatis - Konsumausgaben von Familien für Kinder, EVS 2018 (Tab. 2.1 + 3.1)